Has anyone ever gotten a prize for suffering? If there is no prize then why do we do it? Why do we hang on to the words or the "look" or the lack of invitation. Life is too precious and too short to not look for solutions to let up the pressure of feeling like you've been wronged.
Suffering is optional, you are free to move from victim to victor at any time and be able to avoid your triggers that are causing fatigue and frustration in your life.
Think about this, the person you think causing your pain was put in your life to show you something that needs to be healed within you. What a gift they are to grow you beyond what you could do on your own.
Listen, there are many ways to look at it, a few will even help you overcome it and then you can check that issue off your life long karmic bucket list and that is your prize. Clear karma from here on out!